Weeks ago, I was busy indulging myself with four women, over strong black coffee, on the smashing topic of Kama Sutra, 9-inch strap-on dildos, and sex positions. Oh yes, we spoke as articulately as possible, keeping checks on the occasional rasping breath, crooked sly smiles, and dazed eyes imagining something exotic as a double penetration mind-fucks. All in all, the discussion was completely liberating, coupled with more sighs and licking of dry lips.
Then it was confession time. The ladies were curious. They asked me on my experience in the art of threesome. I’m no stranger to sex, though I am hesitant with the prospects of a threesome. And I explained to the ladies of my reservation. I confessed that I was afraid of not having the patience in satisfying all two partners. Regardless of the people would boast about it, I have had some experience in such sexual acts. And to be perfectly fair, my previous partners were very considerate and patient but quite a taxing affair.
The point of the matter, how many of us are comfortable in talking candidly about sex without vomiting blood or paralyzing in fear or embarrassment? If we’re always uncomfortable with our bodies and our cocks/cunts, then naturally the experience would leave us breathlessly confused.
Be a responsible partner and student, stop being shy and start talking about it.
Zashnain
An avid blogger, twitterer and photojournalist, Zashnain Zainal suffers from an incurable addiction to social work, helping marginalised communities since 1989. Nowadays he travels from the plantations of Malaysia to the slums of Thailand. He can be found at zashnain.com and @bedlamfury
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